Aug 12, 2022
In this episode you'll learn:
01:37 (1) Your child is the teacher
07:27 (2) Your children are not yours to discipline
08:51 How we hold boundaries without punishing our children
13:27 (3) To raise sovereign beings we must allow our children to be sovereign
14:07 The link between parenting & decision-making styles as an adult
14:38 Importance of acknowledging & encouraging children to express themselves
17:45 Conflict over different parenting styles
18:04 What causes depression
18:59 Parenting styles and children's emotional intelligence
20:42 Signs that you need to heal
07:19 When you shut down your emotions & you hold them down that will lead to depression
09:31 Our children are not here for us to discipline & to control, our role as parents is to protect them & guide them.
11:07 How can we tell our children to be gentle & to be kind if we are not gentle and kind with them?
13:51 I believe that everybody should have a decision of what is happening to their body, any kind of medical procedure should be a personal choice.
14:38 If we never let our children express if we always make them wrong if we need to fight them on every little thing, guess what? We dim their light & they start to believe that, ‘I don’t have all the answers for myself, I don’t know what’s right for myself, my parents know what’s best for me.’
15:47 Allow your child to make mistakes & be that safe space for them to come back to, that person that doesn’t judge them, that person that loves them unconditionally.
16:43 It’s funny how we tell our kids, ‘be confident’, ‘you got this’ but we don’t do things to actually build their confidence.
20:19 We have to understand that when we are triggered when we’re going to fight mode with our child & when there is a power struggle with you & a toddler, please understand this - that’s your inner child fighting with your present day child.
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